Friends….Old Friends….Best Friends…
Posted by Pete | Posted in News | Posted on 03-12-2010
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Well you start getting old and looking up friends, especially old friends, you find out that you have out lived a lot of them…Then you get to talk to an old friend and it seems like you can take up right where you left off many years ago….Have you noticed that?…It’s sure nice to visit and talk about the good old days, meaning of course, the youthful life shared….I spoke to one old friend today, and while it was a sad occasion that prompted the call, as he had lost a brother, also a friend, it was so good to hear his voice again and to get caught up on the many years between our last visit…The last couple of years of high school, this guy was like a brother, seems like if you saw one of us you saw both of us…He was like family over at my house and I think I was kind of like family over at his house….I feel so badly that I have missed all these years in talking to him, but we just get to busy living, don’t we, hung up on work and family duties… all of that is important but looks like I could have made time somewhere in there…. it seemed like to me this morning the we both hated to have the other hang up the phone as we kept finding things to talk about….after promising not to wait so long next time we did hang up…..but let me tell you, this old soul was pleased as he had ever been in talking to a friend, an old friend, a best friend and today I have vowed to never let that much time pass between visits with all you guys that it has been my pleasure to call “friend” over the years…..You know what, I ain’t got that many left, and every one of you are special……Pete Hester



Your last statement is the critical one here. Life is a process of learning; but, unfortuanately, many of us learn too slowly and too late. By the time we learn life is almost gone, and we have little time left to do things differently. If we are suitably careful, we can live as long as Bob Hope, but I doubt if even Bob had the capacity to learn very much during his last 10 years. Life is brief; it is precious; and, once its gone, it is gone; and all learning is gone with it.
Too soon old and too late smart, huh!